Legal Vs. Symbolic Destination Wedding Ceremonies: What’s The Difference?
Are you dreaming of saying ‘I do’ in a glorious tropical paradise? Are you looking for an intimate and meaningful wedding ceremony, without all the hassles or hefty financial investments? Destination weddings are becoming more and more popular every year, making it easier than ever to plan a romantic getaway. Getting your destination wedding marriage licenses don’t have to be a challenge. When considering your dream destination wedding though, it is important to decide if you are after a symbolic ceremony or something that is legally recognized by both countries involved.
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In this blog post, we will explore the various options available to couples who choose to have their nuptials overseas and discuss the key differences between legal and symbolic ceremonies. As a destination wedding planning company, we’re often asked about destination wedding marriage licenses and if a couple should have a symbolic or legal wedding, or how it works to get married in another country. I have broken it down for you below.
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Destination Weddings Are More Popular Than Ever
In the past couple of years, destination weddings have experienced a surge in popularity. So much so that the trend is making its way across to those who would otherwise not have considered it.
If you’re planning to get married in a different country, you will probably face the decision between a legal and symbolic wedding and wonder, “what the heck is a symbolic wedding?” or, “is a symbolic wedding legal”, or “what’s the difference between a symbolic ceremony and a civil ceremony?”
I’ll give you the deets on both a legal (civil) destination wedding ceremony and a symbolic destination wedding ceremony so that you can decide which is best for you.
What is Required For a Legal Ceremony Away?
Documents You May Need
First, just like you would experience in your State, there will be documents and proof of identity required, along with any licensing fees. Some countries require notarized copies of your passport, divorce decree, or legal name change. Also, others will require translation of the documents into their language.
Ceremony Officiated in Language of That Country
Additionally, when doing a legal ceremony in a country where English is not the native language, there is no guarantee that your wedding will be officiated in English. In this case, a translator (usually the onsite wedding planner) will translate what the officiant says. If this is something you don’t want, you can always bring in your own translator.
Government Fees: Destination Wedding Marriage Licenses Are Not Free
Undoubtedly, there will be government fees involved, and possibly a blood test done on-site. I make sure to inform my couples in advance, if this is the case, so that they are prepared.
Witnesses: destination wedding marriage licenses require them!
In addition, some countries will require witnesses (who are not related to you) to arrive with you on the same day. Since you are planning a destination wedding with all of your family and friends this shouldn’t be a problem.
Residency Requirement:
Beyond that, most countries will also require a residency. For example, a requirement may be a 4-day residency and only business days (Monday-Friday) count toward your residency. Others may have a requirement of 48 hours and you can arrive any day of the week.
Ensure that sure that your dates are set for the correct amount of time.
A Legal Ceremony is Nothing to Worry About:
Don’t let this scare you! Some countries are super easy to get legally married in. It all varies, so I generally advise my clients to do what is best for them based on the country they decide to get married in.
Be Flexible: destination wedding marriage licenses are not tricky!
Nevertheless, I suggest being flexible. You may be going into planning a legal destination wedding abroad assuming that you’ll be able to make it legally binding in the destination. Don’t let this pigeonhole you into only a handful of options.
Benefits of a legal/civil marriage:
- The moment you say “I Do” in front of your friends and family is the real deal.
- You won’t have to decide which day to celebrate your anniversary.
- In my book, it’s kind of cool to say you were legally married in “Mexico”
A Symbolic Ceremony: Where You Won’t Need A Destination Wedding Marriage Licenses
Second, let’s discuss the mystery of the symbolic wedding and what you need to know. Essentially, a symbolic wedding looks and sounds just like a civil wedding, it just isn’t legally binding. It is like a commitment ceremony or a renewal of vows.
Do you know what a symbolic ceremony is? It’s like a regular ceremony, with all the traditions and rituals, but instead of legally binding documents, it’s all about symbolism and meaning. It’s a chance to express your love in a unique and personal way. Think of it as a blank canvas where you can paint your own love story with all the colors of your heart. You can include your favorite songs, poems, or even a sand unity ceremony. The possibilities are endless! It’s a beautiful way to celebrate your love and commitment in a way that truly represents who you are as a couple.
Avoiding Extra Hoops to Jump Through:
The purpose of choosing a symbolic destination wedding is to avoid the legal requirements to get married in another country. This could be due to the hassle, or possibly due to the cost.
Can Ensure Everyone Can Celebrate:
Occasionally, couples will have certain family members who won’t be able to travel with them, so they choose to get married in the States before heading to their destination so that those family members can be a part of the union.
You Will Need Proof You Are Married:
No matter your reason, with a symbolic destination wedding getting married before heading to the destination is ideal. This is because the country you are heading to will want a copy of your marriage records. To them, your ceremony is like a vow renewal, and they want to ensure you are legally married before officiating your ceremony. Make sense? Your destination wedding advisor will help you with all of these arrangements.
Benefits of a symbolic wedding ceremony:
- Less expensive
- Not as much paperwork
- No residency requirements
- No translation of documents
In the end, each couple should do what feels is right for them. Unless you absolutely need to have a legal ceremony for your destination wedding, such as in some Catholic weddings, there is no wrong answer here. The most important thing to remember about your destination wedding ceremony, is to do what will make you and your soon to be spouse most happy. A destination wedding is supposed to be a celebration of your love, so make it as hassle free & wonderful as possible.
Some FAQs About Destination Wedding Marriage Licenses
Are you legally married at a destination wedding?
Destination weddings are a blast! Imagine saying your “I dos” while overlooking a breathtaking sunset on an exotic beach. Or maybe exchanging vows on a mountaintop surrounded by lush greenery. But, let’s talk legality. Just because you’re not getting married in your home country, does that mean you’re not legally married?
Well, it depends. Each country has its own rules and regulations, so it’s always best to do your research beforehand. But don’t stress too much! With a little bit of planning and maybe some paperwork, you’ll be able to make your destination wedding a legally binding ceremony.
How do you get married at a destination wedding?
You and your travel coordinator will arrange for you and the wedding coordinator to meet. Then you will plan a ceremony in a location and at a time of your choosing.
Can a U.S. citizen legally get married in another country?
When it comes to love, borders and citizenship do not matter! So yes, a U.S. citizen can absolutely legally get married in another country. How exciting is that? Imagine saying your vows under the Eiffel Tower or on a beautiful beach in the Caribbean. Of course, you will need to make sure you have all the necessary documents and follow the specific procedures required by the country, but with a little planning and research, you’ll be on your way to wedded bliss in no time. So go ahead and plan your dream destination wedding, or maybe even just spontaneously elope in a foreign land. After all, love knows no bounds – or borders!
Is it OK to get married before the wedding?
Yes! We work with a lot of couples who choose to get married in a small civil ceremony before their destination wedding event. It saves the couple the hassle of having to adhere to the specific country guidelines and paperwork.
Is marriage in the Caribbean legal in the US?
Are you dreaming of sipping piña coladas on a white sandy beach, while saying “I do” to the love of your life? Well, in the Caribbean, you can make that dream a reality! But, what are the legal implications of getting married in paradise? If you’re a US citizen, don’t fret! As long as the marriage is recognized as legal in the country it took place, it will be recognized as legal in the US. However, it’s important to do your research and ensure that all necessary documentation is in order before jumping headfirst into wedded bliss. So, grab your sunglasses and swimsuit, and get ready to tie the knot in one of the most beautiful regions of the world!
Do you have a registry for a destination wedding?
Certainly! As a matter of fact, you can register for a honeymoon-specific registry that can enhance your destination wedding! There are a couple that I recommend. The first is the honeyfund: specifically for your honeymoon fund! It’s my #1 recommendation for my destination wedding brides! Click here: Honeyfund
Or you can check out a more comprehensive wedding registry site here: Click here: MyRegistry.com
Do couples pay for a destination wedding?
For the most part, yes. The couple will pay a certain amount for their wedding ceremony and other options. Couples wouldn’t be responsible for paying for the accommodations for their guests.
What is a realistic budget for a destination wedding?
You can read about how much a destination wedding will cost here.
Are You Ready to Get Your Destination Wedding Marriage Licenses?
If you are in the midst of planning your destination wedding and feel like you’re stuck and not getting very far, I encourage you to use this link, to schedule a free 30-minute strategy session with me! I would be honored to help your figure out everything you need for an amazing destination wedding! (Legal or Symbolic)
